Walpole: In a world where we’re always available, how do you separate your personal time from your work time?
Robert Ettinger: Honestly, with great difficulty. To be effective I need to be clear thinking, innovative and thorough, not tired, stressed and making mistakes. Therefore, I must have time to rest recuperate and regenerate. This encompasses not only adequate sleep, but exercise, diversion and some fun. With an hour-plus commute, time is at a premium.
For me, it is how I use my time most appropriately. I would rather take longer holidays and do some work on them, rather than shorter without interruption. On holiday I will check my emails twice a day and respond to the most urgent, as by so doing I feel in control, which I find less stressful.
I also would rather start in the office at 6am, getting so much done while uninterrupted for two hours and also providing a chance to communicate with customers in Asia. Then returning home by 3pm to speak to US customers, with the added bonus of totally missing a rush hour commute. Of course, I must be flexible and attend evening events and travel, but I do try to keep this to a minimum. When I use my time well there is time for work and leisure.
What’s one thing you do after the workday to help you unwind?
I love to cook. I like to take my time, follow a recipe exactly, then add something unorthodox. I consider myself a masterchef – it's just a pity that no-one around me is of similar thinking!
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What activity do you do in your time away from the office that helps you relax and recentre after a stressful week?
To really relax I like to go on a leisurely bike ride around the quiet country lanes – although absolutely no Lycra as I maintain a more sedentary pace (I have been accused of taking my bike for a walk!). I return home after about 25 to 35 miles feeling utterly refreshed, that my ski muscles are rejuvenated and all is right with the world.
What’s something you’ve read, listened to or seen in your spare time that’s helped you at work?
Every morning on my drive to work I listen to Farming Today at 5:45am on Radio 4. It makes me realise it is not only luxury that has its highs and its lows, and it encourages outward thinking. There is a reassuring communality in disparate businesses.
After home and the office, where’s your favourite third space?
My favourite third space would have to be abroad. It would be watching the sun come up over a sand dune in the Empty Quarter, Oman, with only the sound of the wind on the sand. It would be sitting in a quiet taverna in the south of Antiparos, Greece, with a glass of wine and the sea lapping at my feet. It would be sitting in a hidden tiny restaurant in Tokyo with the chef cooking especially for me, in front of me.
On Sunday night, how do you prepare yourself for the week ahead?
I don't – that's the advantage of starting at 6 am on a Monday. I only go as far as selecting the appropriate outfit.
Best reason you've had to turn your Out of Office on recently?
I never turn on my Out of Office – probably because I don’t know how to!